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A former wife of Bekmyrza Zhumash Aitzhanuly, the husband of popular singer Tamara Asar, has come forward on social media with serious allegations regarding his parental responsibilities. She claims he is not providing financial support or maintaining contact with his children from their previous marriage.

Allegations of Parental Neglect

The ex-wife detailed her situation in a social media post, expressing her distress over her former husband's alleged lack of involvement in his children's lives. She stated that he refuses to pay for his underage children's education and is reportedly hiding his income while engaged in legal disputes.

According to the former wife, Bekmyrza Zhumash Aitzhanuly established the "Zavod Astyk" enterprise in 2012, which officially opened in 2014. At that time, they were legally married. However, eight years later, he left her for another woman, taking the business with him.

"He built this business during our marriage. He gave his surname to his illegitimate son, whom I raised from ages 11 to 18, and he provided for his elder daughter from his second marriage. Now, he has changed his name and completely avoids our shared children. He provides no support for their education, medical needs, or any other necessities," she wrote.

The Alimony Dispute

The woman further explained that her ex-husband initiated the divorce, leaving her without financial resources as she approached 40. Although she receives a salary from the factory as alimony, she claims it is insufficient for the children to receive a proper education. She asserts that her children are entitled to alimony based on their father's income from the factory.

"I am not ashamed to talk about this – on the contrary, families who present themselves as exemplary but do not pay enough attention to their children should be ashamed. They vacation abroad, buy expensive clothes and cars, and dine in restaurants. But this is my children's money. You cannot build your own children's happiness at the expense of others," she concluded.